On the 9th of July 2022, the IofC Trustbuilding team delivered a dialogue on the theme ‘Fathers Matter’ to the community of Orange Farm at Orange farm Human Rights Advice Centre. The aim of the event was to honour and appreciate fathers and the men they are before becoming fathers. Eight men attended the session coming from Orange Farm, Soweto and Midrand communities.
After welcoming, introduction and setting ground rules, we started with the ‘Communication’ session that was led by Cleo. It focused on Communication as an expression tool. Cleo said that it is not that men cannot communicate. However, it is the struggle of not expressing and knowing how to communicate better. We looked at the five languages of love, Concepts from the book by Gary Chapman. He notes the five as words of affirmation, acts of love, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch. This is to enable an understanding of different ways of communication and how to understand one's own language and that of those around one.